Parents and Pastors: Partners in Gen Z Discipleship


Research Releases in Millennials & Generations • July 17, 2018

A recent Barna study shows it is very important to engaged Christian parents that their child develops a lasting faith. If the goal is to impart a vibrant, lasting faith to the next generation, the current state of affairs is not promising: Christianity has less of a hold on Gen Z than on any previous age group. Fewer U.S. teens than adults believe core theological tenets of the Christian faith—and teens who do make orthodox faith claims are not quite as sure about them as adults. Most of us form our values and assumptions before the age of 20, so it’s vitally important to reassess our discipleship priorities and methods—and adjust as necessary. In this excerpt from Barna’s major study of Generation Z, conducted in partnership with Impact 360 Institute, we take a look at the discipleship interactions that today’s teens have with their parents and youth pastors.

Parents Want a Lasting Faith for Their Children
More than nine out of 10 engaged Christian parents (those who identify as Christian, regularly attend church and have orthodox beliefs) say it is important that their child “is equipped to explain the Christian faith” and is “engaged in service”—likely as elements of the overall goal of strong adult faith.

Parents want teens to develop a faith that lasts

Who owns the responsibility to develop their teen’s faith? According to engaged Christian parents, they do. Three out of five say that they, the parents, are primarily responsible (59%) and more than one-third says that it’s mostly them, with the help of church leaders (36%). They approach this in a variety of ways, including attending church together (89%), praying together (59%), reading / discussing the Bible together (45%) and volunteering / serving with a ministry together (44%).

Three out of five engaged Christians parents feel primarily responsible for developing their teen’s faith. 36 percent says that it’s mostly them, with the help of church leaders. Click To Tweet

Christian Gen Z Are Open with Their Parents
Four out of five engaged Christian teens agree “I can share my honest questions, struggles and doubts with my parents” (79%), far more than any other faith segment. According to a majority of parents, these conversations include Christian perspectives on current events and biblical perspectives on sexuality and marriage. Fewer than half, however, have ever discussed (among other topics) healthy media consumption or the relationship between science and the Bible—two subjects certainly at daily issue in their teens’ lives. Additionally, less than one-quarter of engaged parents has talked about integrating faith and career; even fewer have talked with their teen about discerning God’s will in their choice of college. These are areas of utmost concern to many teenagers, especially older teens who are thinking deeply about planning for their future. Understanding how their plans fit with God’s purpose is a big part of keeping a faith that lasts.

But parents, like Gen Z, don’t all feel comfortable having conversations about difficult topics. Surprisingly, one in five says they do not feel prepared to address “tough” questions about Christianity, God or the Bible. One in seven feels unprepared to talk about the foundational beliefs of Christianity. And about the same number struggles to address spiritual and moral relativism—which, as we’ve seen, is a potent challenge to Gen Z faith.

Topics parents discuss with teens

Topics parents feel unprepared to discuss with teens

Youth Group’s Role in Worship and Fellowship
Three-quarters of engaged Christian parents say their teen attends a youth program at church at least once a month (74%); two-thirds report they attend weekly or more often (65%). According to parents whose teens attend monthly, the programs have a few strengths in common. Providing a place for teens to worship together (42%) and creating a place for teens to develop positive peer relationships (34%) rank at the top, with “providing a place for teens to ask serious questions about the Bible or foundational Christian beliefs” (23%) at the bottom of the list.

Unfortunately, some youth programs also appear to have a few weaknesses in common, according to parents. These include helping teens determine their career / vocation (34%), equipping them to talk about their faith with people who do not share their beliefs (16%) and facilitating a consistent small group / Bible study for their teen (14%).

But, according to youth pastors, one of the most significant factors affecting teens’ experience of youth group is actually their parents’ faith engagement (or lack thereof). The most common struggle they name is “parents not prioritizing their teen’s spiritual growth.” Though, presumably, youth pastors are not talking about engaged Christian parents here. Nearly three in 10 also admit that “balancing the needs of unchurched teens with growing those who do have faith” is a struggle, and one in 11 says “too much time dealing with practical life topics and not enough time talking about foundational beliefs” is a problem for their group. So at least some youth pastors are aware that the youth program is not ideal for in-depth discipleship with teens who already have a faith-engaged family.

The most common struggle that youth pastors report in their ministry is parents not prioritizing Gen Z’s spiritual growth. Click To Tweet

Youth pastors' struggles in ministry

When we look at the topics youth pastors have covered during the past year (prayer and devotional habits; basic theology; biblical literacy; sexuality, dating and marriage), it’s clear that most are trying to plant seeds of ideas and habits in teens that will grow into mature faith. Comparing youth pastors’ discussion topics with engaged Christian parents’, youth pastors may actually be more likely to have talked with teens about most subjects on the list. This is partly due to the nature of their different roles: It is literally a youth pastor’s job to talk about these things.

In addition, Barna asked youth pastors about four broader topics that are perennially significant for Christians in any generation and of particular importance for Gen Z, given the cultural challenges they face. Nearly all think they are at least somewhat prepared to address each of these specific worldview topics with teens, particularly the evidence for Jesus and the origins of the Bible.

Worldview topics pastors and parents discuss with teens

Considering the climate in which Gen Z is coming of age, all youth pastors and Christian parents need to prepare for robust conversations on these and other topics relating to biblical worldview. Teens may not be entirely at ease talking about these subjects, but that doesn’t make them any less urgent.

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About the Research
Two nationally representative studies of teens were conducted. The first was conducted using an online consumer panel November 4–16, 2016, and included 1,490 U.S. teenagers 13 to 18 years old. The second was conducted July 7–18, 2017, and also used an online consumer panel, which included 507 U.S. teenagers 13 to 18 years old. The data from both surveys were minimally weighted to known U.S. Census data in order to be representative of ethnicity, gender, age and region.

One nationally representative study of 1,517 U.S. adults ages 19 and older was conducted using an online panel November 4–16, 2016. The data were minimally weighted to known U.S. Census data in order to be representative of ethnicity, gender, age and region.

GEN Z were born 1999 to 2015. (Only teens 13 to 18 are included in this study.)
MILLENNIALS were born 1984 to 1998.
GEN X were born 1965 to 1983.
BOOMERS were born 1946 to 1964.
ELDERS were born before 1946.
NO FAITH identify as agnostic, atheist or “none of the above.”
ENGAGED CHRISTIANS identify as Christian, have attended church within the past six months and strongly agree with the each of the following:

  • The Bible is the inspired word of God and contains truth about the world.
  • I have made a personal commitment to Jesus Christ that is still important in my life today.
  • I engage with my church in more ways than just attending services.
  • I believe that Jesus Christ was crucified and raised from the dead to conquer sin and death.

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About Barna
Barna Group is a private, non-partisan, for-profit organization under the umbrella of the Issachar Companies. Located in Ventura, California, Barna Group has been conducting and analyzing primary research to understand cultural trends related to values, beliefs, attitudes and behaviors since 1984.

© Barna Group, 2018

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